Sunday, November 4

looks- does it really matter?

hmmm...

chin mei lee is going to give a lecture on the importance of looks in a relationship today.

heheh, not funny.

does your physical appearance really matter in a relationship?

come on, be honest.

personally, it matters to me, but I'm more concern with the connection and the "click" when I'm with that person.

I've heard funny stories- for example a boyfriend dumped his girlfriend after they started dating, because that was the first time he has seen her face without make-up. His reason? "Cannot accept her face without make-up la~ So much difference"

Personal experience - I found out my ex was talking behind my back, telling other people that I dressed like an aunty and I'm not pretty. HAHA.

and I think if a relationship started because of physical attraction (only), usually it won't last long. (not proven scientifically, own observation)

Sedih, isn't it?

I guess that's the only downside of being someone who is physically attractive- sometimes it's hard to find someone who is really sincere to you.

see, it's good to be someone who is not attractive sometimes! =D


note: not discussing about anyone in particular, just my personal opinion.

15 comments:

ganli said...

thats why
jadi manusia amat menyusahkan

yuanlih said...

guys who don't look beyond your appearance physically is not worth having. immature lots.
there's more than what meets the eye. :D

Anonymous said...

betul betul!

better pak toh with girls, they don't really care how u look like =p


HOR ?

Anonymous said...

gan li, saya tak pernah susah, so tak paham la! kekekekeke

Anonymous said...

LOL...pak tor with girl even more stressful rite? since i think or i feel...or i observe girls do tend to dress up etc...care bout their face etc...

as yuli said...dun look beyond physical appearance dangerous...coz there would be another physical apperance hidden underneath like....*coughmarlbecough*

and with regards to ur funny breakup story u heard...that's the main reason for the Foundation of Beauty b4 Makeup that supports zero-to-minimal make up unless there's an occasion for it...a REAL occasion...

yuanlih said...

i dont think the guys are the only gender that think that way. some girls are like that too.
pity, shallow people.

Anonymous said...

oh yeah...and also...
appeareance do matter if u are shallow or deep... :P

is just that....at the very least...presentable...

even the fugliest...or the dirtiest...or the scruffiest ppl come up to and try to know u...for sure u would wanna run away....

to know what someone is truly like...takes time...but for that to happen...u hafto give them the chance to be friends with u first...


so...all leng luis....give chance lar...dun turn down all not-so-leng-chai guys... :P

yuanlih said...

i agree what you see is important. but we cant put it as the priority. :)

ganli said...

meilee, take pernah susah?
so now u admit u're pretty la?
after shing said so. LOL





not about looks,
its just how u present urself
lol
nah singloong
u dun ejek me i tell u
i know u sure have comment one

yuanlih said...

lol he has comment on everything

Anonymous said...

if dun comment ar...then the comment box mai empty lor... :P

marble go polish urself...or wax? :P

takkan i go check out all ur blogs one by one and comment meh...concentrate here enuff lor :D hehehe

but if marble write blog...i sure go see :D

Anonymous said...

* remain silent *

PERNSONALITY COUNTS MOST!!!

g: i tak pernah susah coz i tak pernah pretty, so dun hv this kind of prob la! although shing said so..... but kenot like that wan mar.. haiyohhhh...

and i do agree that first impression counts most. but after that, it's all depend on urself.
a pretty face without personality = empty can, right? =D

Anonymous said...

*personality

ganli said...

yl: yes, he byk comment. hahahaha
cakap byk..bagus ma hoh

sl: polish what, need to polish one meh.. u go wax. marble can't write, if can, show me...
world's greatest marble.


ml : first impression is always misleading... agree?

Anonymous said...

hmmm..
i think it depends on that person itself gua..
some people are being themselves all the time, as in they don't pretend when they meet someone new..
some maybe prefer to set a good impression lo..